Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Bill of Rights for wives and partners

From the "His Prostate Cancer" website- Bill of rights for wives and partners

  • Cry as often as you need to but look for humor everyday.

  • Worry all you want but know that it won’t change a thing.


  • You can be a tower of strength and still fall apart.


  • You don’t always have to know the right thing to say.


  • Accept that you will never be the perfect wife/partner.


  • Forgive yourself for making mistakes.


  • On days when you have nothing to give, know that it will be enough.


  • Take care of yourself and don’t feel guilty about it.


  • Give yourself permission to forget about prostate cancer for a day.


  • Hate the disease but always love the man.


  • Grieve what you’ve lost and celebrate what you’ve got left.


  • Let go of the illusion that you can handle this alone.


  • When the burden is too heavy, give it to God.